Published inModern Spirituality·PinnedMember-onlyA new way to find a better partnerWhether they are out there is another matter! Time to check our chemistry through our DNA, and find a new way to give us more information on the search for an intimate partner. As far as intimate relationships go, many of us are looking for love, still. Some of us…Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Published inModern Spirituality·PinnedMember-onlyWhat is my Life Purpose?How can I discover my Life Purpose? Wouldn’t it be simple if we could just look up our Soul Purpose and Life Purpose on a list? Then it would just be a question of going and doing it! I sometimes joke with my clients about that, but the truth of the matter is a little more complex. …Life Purpose5 min readLife Purpose5 min read
PinnedDr. Brené Brown Nails Narcissists in 4 Sentences Flat8K68Nick WolnyI like Brene Brown (even did one of her courses a while back), but her quote didn't resonate for me.I like Brene Brown (even did one of her courses a while back), but her quote didn't resonate for me. I am a 17 year veteran of marriage to a narcissist, (now an ex since 2018) and I believe we are only scratching the surface of the causation of these…2 min read2 min read
Published inModern Spirituality·PinnedMember-onlyGet more out of your psychic readingHow can psychic readings be more effective and supportive? How can readers relay guidance to clients that can be practically applied? For those of us that have had a psychic or intuitive reading, worked with a coach to grow our intuition, or even reached out for clarity around decision-making, the…Psychology9 min readPsychology9 min read
Published inModern Spirituality·PinnedMember-onlyWhy do traumatic memories from a narcissistic relationship keep repeating?So many people experiencing the echoes of trauma from a narcissistic relationship get told that they are just ‘playing the victim’ and that it’s time they gave up talking about it. Living with trauma isn’t a choice. Why do some people seem unable to let go of old relationships? Simply put, the trauma caused during the relationship, and the trauma that caused…Narcissism6 min readNarcissism6 min read
Published inModern Spirituality·PinnedMember-onlyThe 7 habits of non-narcissistic peopleThe 7 habits of truly non-narcissistic people There’s a lot of material on the internet about the nature of being a narcissist. It’s definitely time that we studied this information. We need to open our eyes to ancient beliefs, thought-forms, and mind installations that keep us stuck in place as we step forward bit by bit on…Narcissism4 min readNarcissism4 min read
Published inModern Spirituality·Apr 30Member-onlyNothing but love in my house — despite fear and loathing outsideHow I got through the end of April 2023, after anti-transgender laws were passed in Kansas. Last week was tough for transgender people in Kansas, and their parents and loved ones. Two laws were passed despite Governor Laura Kelly’s veto. Kansas legislators impose sweeping anti-transgender bathroom law Republican legislators in Kansas have enacted what may be the most sweeping transgender bathroom law in the U.S. on…www.nbcnews.comTransgender Rights6 min readTransgender Rights6 min read
Apr 23For The Aging Covert Narcissist, Karma Is A Bitch1445Myla MorningstarSo true. My ex is a test pilot (the big I am in so many ways!).So true. My ex is a test pilot (the big I am in so many ways!). I remember hearing a recording once of him in an experimental plane when the landing gear wouldn't come down. He sounded so terrified and at a loss. But, I thought if he'd done that enough--and he's had a long career flying--wouldn't he be at peace with the possible outcomes? Apparently not. I suspect the narcissism has him thinking he's indomitable.1 min read1 min read
Published inModern Spirituality·Apr 12Member-onlyHow a narcissist enacts verbal crueltyExample 1: “My heart belongs to you, but my penis is up for hire”. Yes, that’s a real quote. (The white scribble is where I whited out some venting (expletives deleted!). Note I didn’t white out the p-word. Seems hardly worth it based on what remains on the page. I found an old Journal from August 2006 This…Narcissism5 min readNarcissism5 min read
Published inManifestors Publication·Apr 8Member-onlyWhat it means to have a ‘closed and repelling’ auraOne of the first things I learned about my Human Design was that, as a Manifestor, I have this thing called a ‘closed aura’, even a ‘repelling aura’. Say what? As someone who was extremely cooperative and agreeable, and described by a previous business partner as a ‘kitten’, this came as somewhat…Human Design5 min readHuman Design5 min read