Thanks Stardust, very kind of you to say so. Yes, and the key is, most people don't even KNOW about loops like this, they are running just outside of conscious awareness, and can cause so much suffering. Healing from narc interaction has to be such a conscious process, or our aura merges again and off we go.

I'm hopeful that the parenting loop can be disconnected for me in the next year or two.

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Quite right. The reason for their calling, writing or anything else is never about mending the relationship (like a non-narcissistic person would perhaps attempt). It's just another power-over move, to take energy, in some way, some how.

It's really sad, but true. I have an ex-partner who's a narc. I put a little note on my phone so that whenever he texts me (we have a child so can't break all contact), I remember, and don't get sucked in. Their auras can be pretty powerful, it's how they 'got' us in the first place!

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Sarah Lawrence

Writes about being a professional psychic, Past Lives Reader, narcissism, losing Loved Ones, Human Design, and blogs since 2010 at MomOnASpiritualJourney.com.